If your girlfriend is going through a depressive episode, no amount of hugging and cuddling will cheer her up. Now, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pamper her. Please do.
What you also need to do is to think out of the ordinary and surprise her with an unexpected emergency plan that will totally change her mood.
Here’s a list of our top 7 best propositions for your girlfriend to indulge in:
Take your girlfriend camping, and you will offer her the chance to rediscover herself and to reconnect with her basic instincts. The experience will be so intense that she will find herself compelled to reexamine her state of mind. You can rest assured that it won’t be long before you see her giving in to excitement and joy.
Sky diving can be a liberating experience for anyone who needs to escape life’s problems and routines. Do not think twice about buying two tickets for you and your girlfriend to fly in the sky like two free birds.
This practice is known for reconditioning and rejuvenating the skinny dipper’s mind set. Plus, it’s a really fun thing to do as a couple since it can be a favorable moment to get intimate and to have deep conversations which can be soothing and relieving for the both of you.
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4. Motorcycle riding
If you do not already own a motorcycle, rent one. And take your girlfriend on a speedy ride. You can be sure that no matter how sad she feels when you hit a high speed (but not too high though), her levels of adrenaline will skyrocket and she will thank you for your edginess.
5. Parachute jumping
Parachuting is similar to skydiving as they both stimulate the mind and the spirit of its adepts as they float up in the seventh sky. If you take your girlfriend parachute jumping, you will give her a chance to challenge herself in an out of the ordinary experience, which will leave her time for moaning.
6. Themed shopping
No woman dislikes shopping. Better yet, if you go shopping for a particular thing to serve a particular purpose, it will totally shift your girlfriend’s mind away from what’s making her sad to what’s making her excited and eventually happy.
You could get her a cat and shop for what all the cat needs. Or you could offer her a trip with her best friend and take her shopping for new clothes to wear on the trip.
7. Make one of their fantasies come true
You certainly are aware of your girlfriend’s fantasies. If you have the mean to make them a reality, go for it without any hesitation. For example, if you know she wants a signed book from an untraceable author that she is so fond of, find this author for her and make him sign the book.
Since cheering your girlfriend up when she is having an emotional breakdown isn’t easy, our advice is that you go out of your way for her while choosing to dazzle her with extraordinary things that she can’t be expecting. The impact of the surprise will make her overcome her sorrows.
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